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Is He The One?: 5 Signs You Should Move Forward with Your Man!


Is He The One?

When it comes to new love and romance, when do you know when it’s really right?

We put together a few ideas to look for, when you need the green light to move forward with your new man.

1. He’s Honest. 

Honesty and integrity are hands-down the best qualities you can discover in a new romantic partner.

To see how honest he is, take note of how he interacts with other people.

  • Does he tell little white lies to his friends?
  • Does he tell an even bigger lie to his family without blinking an eye?
  • Does he mention having to lie at work to his boss or colleagues?
  • Has he talked about having lied to a former partner in the past?

If this comes in any way to anyone, don’t ignore it! You’re man is not high-quality.

One day, he’ll be lying to you!

2. He Is On A Long-Term Mission To Woo You.

If a man dedicates an extensive amount of time romantically pursuing you, let him! Enjoy the getting-to-know-him stage and watch your relationship flourish. Time is the key here.

It’s one thing for a man to buy and send you flowers every once in a while – it’s quite another for him to plant and tend to a garden of roses just for you! A man’s time is just as precious precious than any form of material wealth.

If a man is giving you a good chunk of his time, paying attention to your habits, and learning your preferences, that’s a green light! Go for it lady!

3. He Has A Master Plan.

If your guy has a set of goals and a solid plan to achieve them, then you’re well aware of how powerful he is. When you see him consistently moving forward, recognize that he understands the value of hard work and patience. He’s almost guaranteed to apply the same tactics to the development of your relationship.

If you think that you’ve found someone who is afraid of commitment and intimacy, read our article on How To Spot and Avoid A Commitment-Phobe.

4. He Checks In Regularly and Is Curious About Your Life.

If your future man is connecting with you regularly just to say hi, it means he’s thinking about you throughout the day. There’s bound to be chemistry, and perhaps a possibility of a future.

5 Signs You Should Move Forward with Your Man!

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5. He Invites You Into His World.

It’s easy to tell when I man truly wants to share a piece of his life with you, because he’ll invite you to his world.

He will be happy to introduce you to his trusted family members, hold your hand in front of his friends, and ask you to spend the weekend together. Remember to move slowly.

Ask yourself if you are honestly willing to share your world with this person as well. If you are, you may find yourself on the path to a wonderful future with him.

Have you discovered that he’s not the one? Then let him go! If it’s meant to be, then he’ll come back! Here’s why.

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  • Reply
    lakeisha Baldwin
    October 14, 2014 at 10:46 am

    What if my partner has signs from all three categories. What shall I do

  • Reply
    June 11, 2014 at 12:55 pm

    like others. it took me a loooonnnnnggg while to find the right one. well i believe im there. wonderful man. in the past people would ask me the question of are u in a relationship, are u gonna get married, do you have a boyfriend. men would say that line your smile is beautiful why arent you with someone? then you meet the fools and the idiots playas and pimps. makes you just wanna scream but here i am, at 50 finally found the love of my life. i always said, to people, well my man is on the stove in that pot simmering, he just aint done yet. well when this man came along, i asked him can i turn the stove off now, his reply was NO, because you and i now are simmering and will continue to simmer will never be done. ya’ll know what that means
    peace everyone, it does happen!

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    khadra ali
    May 26, 2014 at 6:13 am

    I have found over the years that i was looking in all the wrong places and wrong people but once the man that was made for me came along i knew he was the one. All the signs are there and i am so thankful to have such an amazing partner by my side.

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    Sonette Alexis
    May 2, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    I thank Yeshua that I have the green light. It took me so many years for the right person to come along, that I know without a doubt the my LORD had prepared him just for me. Now I know what love is. My man has all the qualities described in the “green light” plus more. Furthermore He deserves to be happy and I would do everything within my power to see that he is loved. I wish everybody who hasn’t found that special person would, because it makes a lot of difference in one’s life to have someone to love.

    • Reply
      Kimberly Elise
      May 3, 2014 at 6:43 am


      It’s truly a beautiful thing when you can focus on the positive aspects of your relationship. It stays strong that way! Keep it up.

      Love, Kimberly

    • Reply
      May 11, 2014 at 11:45 am

      You are highly favored ..some of us are still waiting with hope..I know those who wait end up with the best..with god everything is possible

  • Reply
    Meredith Peterson
    April 26, 2014 at 8:19 am

    This is awesome. I need to go back and read the blogs regarding the RED & YELLOW lights as well. I’ve been dating this man 8-mos now and feel as though I’m at a crossroad without any signals or signs… And my iPhone just died on me! LoL…. Thanks so much for this, continued blessings!

    • Reply
      Kimberly Elise
      April 26, 2014 at 12:01 pm

      Thanks, let us know what you learn! – Team Kimberly

      • Reply
        Anje Goff
        April 26, 2014 at 6:43 pm

        K.E. I love you and I’m so grateful for the knowledge you share. Did I miss the Red Light Series? I don’t see it.. Keep up the great work. You make me proud.

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