Behind The Scenes

Kimberly’s Favorite Leading Men: Denzel, Shemar, Rick….

beautiful-flowerOkay ladies, I know you all loooove this topic.

Whether I’m on set or on the street, women from around the world frequently ask me the same questions:

What was it like to work with Denzel?

Is Shemar as nice as he seems in the movies?

Well I’m happy to say that every actor, every single one, has been a DREAM to work with. But, I thought I’d share details about working with just some of my favorite male co-stars. Each of these actors were blessing to work with, and they continue to impress me, not only with their talent but with their beautiful spirits and good hearts. It’s no surprise to me that they’ve all had such massive career success. Here we go!



Denzel Washington

Denzel should really be listed here like 3 times, since that’s how many times we worked together! He is, in my opinion, one of the greatest living actors. The brilliance you all see on screen is only a glimpse of the magic that emanates from his soul.


Photo Source: John Q; New Line Cinema

Professional, astute, and devoted to his craft, Denzel’s performances take my breath away. Each time I have had the opportunity to work with him, I’ve felt blessed. I take my work very, very seriously too, so every time we share the screen, it feels like I’m getting to play ball with the greatest athlete in the world!


Shemar Moore

Here is a fun secret: Shemar would never let me forget that he wasn’t my first choice for “Diary of A Mad Black Woman” (what was I thinking?) At first, I didn’t think people would believe us as Helen and Orlando. Boy was I wrong! 

Diary of a Mad Black Woman was a special movie for me because it was the first time I played a character that allowed me to utilize all my emotions in one storyline. I was a bit nervous about the romantic storyline because I had not really done one before, and Shemar (coming from Days of Our Lives) was pro at it. Lucky for me, he was a perfect gentleman and an excellent actor. He turned in a performance that made every woman in the audience want to shake some sense into Helen for not saying “yes” the first time Orlando asked her to marry him.


Shemar was so committed to his work that he took up smoking and put on a few pounds to help shed his modelesque persona! He wanted to become more of an everyday Joe. It’s not easy job to take a sensitive male character, and portray him with a perfect combination of strength, masculinity and warmth. Shemar did an amazing job in his portrayal, and I cannot imagine making Diary with anyone but him.

Michael Ealy

I always tell Michael we must be from the same planet. He is, truly my artistic soulmate. Normally I’m quite a hermit when I work. I keep to myself, remaining very focused and in an inner world I only share with my character.

But when I signed on to do “For Colored Girls” and Michael and I sat down together for the first time, we both agreed, promised in fact, that playing these wounded characters would take us on a dark and dangerous artistic journey we would absolutely have to take on together, as a team. And that we did.


Photo Source: 34th Street Films

For weeks we would talk for hours about our characters. In the between time, we would go the set (designed as our home) and spend time there in the space – sitting in it, walking in it, being Crystal and Bo in it. By the time it came to THAT scene (those of you who have seen the movie, you know what I’m talking about-yikes!) we both felt our characters through and through, and as actors had infinite trust. I’m very proud of the work Michael and I did. Michael is an actor’s actor: fully committed, present, and a team player.


Rick Fox

Over the past two years, Rick and I have worked on a few projects together including Hit The Floor, Back to School Mom, and the feature film Dope. We’ve played friends, enemies, lovers, and colleagues. And I have to tell you, it’s been a fantastic experience every time.

Here’s why, filmmaking is more than anything a collaborative endeavor. A great project really isn’t made by just one person. There is a whole team, cast and crew, that must work together to make something special: art. And that’s one of the main things that makes Rick such a fantastic actor to work with. A former professional athlete, Rick is the ultimate team player. He holds his own with focus and commitment, but he is equally present for his fellow actors 100 percent.


Photo Source: Lifetime; Back To School Mom

I appreciate an actor who remains present and involved in a scene even if the camera isn’t on him; treats everyone, from extras to principals, with respect and kindness; and who gives all that he can to help his costar’s performance be the best it can be. All that sums up Rick! So in addition to being talented, hardworking, fun, committed, and focused, Rick always brings great positive light and talent and is always there for the team.


Dean Cain

Do you remember the show “Cheers”? In the show, whenever the character Norm would walk into the bar, everyone would shout out, “Norm!” because they were so glad to see him. On my show “Hit the Floor,” Dean is our Norm – we all love Dean!


Photo Source: VH1; Hit The Floor

Here is a man who has worldwide fame, but has never let that go to his head. It doesn’t matter where you are on the chain of command on set, Dean treats everyone with the upmost respect and kindness. For me personally, I am always delighted when I see that I have a bunch of scenes with Dean in a new script. I know that not only am I going to have an INCREDIBLY smart actor to work with, but I’m also going to have a ton of fun all day long. Dean and I just are down right silly. We laugh and laugh. And yes, ladies that marathon love scene between Pete and Sloane was allll that.

Gregory Hines

Dear sweet Gregory…I was blessed to get to play Gregory’s wife in his life long dream project “Bojangles,” a film about the legendary tap dancer and actor Bill Bojangles Robinson. Without a doubt Gregory was one the kindest, sweetest spirits I’ve ever known. He really enjoyed making life a wonderful adventure for everyone around him.

I think it was his personal goal to make me laugh and laugh everyday on set till tears spilled from my eyes. He was open and caring and we had endless fun every day we worked together. It’s always wonderful to be near a person who has had his dream come true, and who not only appreciates it, but thoroughly enjoys every second of it. Dang, I miss that guy.

Love and Light,

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  • Reply
    Pearl Vanderbilt
    July 20, 2015 at 8:05 pm

    Awesome read Kimberly! Thank you so much for sharing. Though I’m afraid I’m more like Jean. You’re my favorite actor. Wishing you well today and always.

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    Carline Brown
    July 18, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    Hi Kimberly,
    Thanks for the read, i enjoyed it.. The scenes from hit the floor with Pete and Sloan are my very favorite 🙂 I love all your work.. You are a brilliant actor and so down-to-earth. I love all your movies and tv shows.. Keep up the good work, u are an inspiration to us women… We love you…
    Lots of love coming from Jamaica

  • Reply
    July 18, 2015 at 1:11 am

    I enjoy watching your movies. You are so talented. Your work in these movies are amazing. I loved you in John Q and Dairy of a mad black women and they are my favorite. Keep up the good work!!!

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    July 17, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Honestly you are my favorite actor. I wish you were in everything. I watch all of your work from tv to movies. Your performance is always special. All of the things you admire in other actors are possessed by you. Just keep on working and thanks for the insight.

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      Kimberly Elise
      July 17, 2015 at 9:02 pm

      Wow, thank you 🙂

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        Hope Bougie Thomason
        August 29, 2015 at 8:51 pm

        Thank you Kim for being you. You have inspired me in so many ways.. Your spirit feels so genuine and relaxing.. I love every movie and television production you have played in. You make life look so easy to live. I admire and adore you. Please keep doing what you are doing…

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