Over the course of my dating life, I’ve learned an important lesson about love – something that pertains to young women who have just begun dating, as well as more experienced women who know all about love….
If it’s right, if it’s meant to be, the man you’re lusting over right now will come back around.
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You see, men are not always ready for what we are looking for…sometimes they’re still getting over another woman; sometimes they’re focused on their job and making a living for themselves; sometimes they are still figuring themselves out.
In such cases, sometimes it’s best to let a potential partner go.
There is no need to hang around and wait.
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A graceful goodbye is key:
no angry text messages, no needy midnight phone calls, no flirty Facebook chats. Just let him go.
If the attraction was real, and he felt what you felt, then he won’t forget about you.
You: the one who was sexy and secure enough to go live her own life.
And what a life you’ll have lived after doing your thing.
- Perhaps you’ll have traveled.
- Perhaps you’ll have started a business.
- Perhaps you’ll have gotten a degree.
- Perhaps you’ll have gotten into great shape.
The future without him holds so many possibilities.
That’s what you need to focus on.
You ask: “But how do know that he’ll come back?”
Firstly, in the 21st century, it’s really hard to lose touch with people.
A decade ago, friends and lovers and neighbors and colleagues would disappear into the ether of history; now, they disappear into the ether of social media or Google.
And even when you’re not friends on Facebook or Google+, they still have your cell phone number!
If he wants you, and if the relationship ended gracefully, then he’ll reach out to you when he’s ready.
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Secondly, men don’t forget about the women they fall hard for. Especially if the relationship ended on positive, benevolent terms.
And if another women comes into his life, well then, it just wasn’t right. But after living your life, then you’ll have found another man too.
So, if you’re struggling to let go of someone that you potentially see yourself with in the future, but the relationship isn’t working out because he isn’t ready or he isn’t giving you what you want, do yourself a favor and gracefully let him go.
Give yourself the gift of living your life.
And if he really loves you, then a few years down the line he will come knocking.
And if it’s not mean to be, well then you’ll have made the necessary space for yourself and your next man.
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